After 41 years in the Granite State, my wife and I are embarking on a 2,500-mile move that will unite our family and ease concerns about potential health problems as we enter our ninth decade. We have enjoyed seeing both sons on special occasions like birthdays and holidays, but those never stopped the ache of being across the country from them. We knew that eventually we would need to move closer, which, of course, meant leaving New Hampshire.
I came to this incredible state when I was 45 and still remember the intensity of my response when I crossed the state line. The physical beauty outshone anything in my experience, and the various options (coast, mountains, urban, or rural) pulled me like a magnet. It felt as if I had finally found a home. I became so attached to New Hampshire that I nearly cried when the Old Man collapsed from his perch.
But other factors also contributed to my decision. We always rank in the top five states when it comes to education. Susan is a teacher, and that was an important factor, and she will continue to teach online courses for the Uuniversity of New Hampshire after we move. A second important consideration was safety, and here we are always among the states with the lowest crime rates. Having moved from a state where a simple task like buying groceries could degenerate into urban warfare, I immediately noticed the difference.
And the people? I mentioned moving from a state that would qualify as a combat zone, which made our new friends and associates even more amicable and helpful. Susan exchanges recipes with the couple on our left and talks education and politics with the newlyweds on our right. Certainly personalities vary, but we have found that cordial conversation is the rule rather than the exception.
So it is with a wistful sigh that we say goodbye to New Hampshire and its lovely capital city. We will never forget you, both before and after your facelift. Thank you for over four decades of life as it should be lived. You will remain in our hearts and minds until both are quiet.
Charles Huckelbury lives in Henniker and has enjoyed New Hampshire for the past 30 years. At 80, time with family and friends makes each day special.